There are many other reasons you might have a “lesbian sex dream” that have nothing to do your sexual orientation, she says.
“Having sex with someone in a dream isn’t the same as being a lesbian,” says Katrina Knizek, a lesbian and sex therapist who specializes in helping people explore their sexuality. Your dreamscape alone isn’t reason enough to doubt your sexuality or to begin identifying as a lesbian. Am I lesbian if I had a spicy sex dream with someone of a similar gender?